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  • Posted October 1, 2017

Living Independently

As I continue to work on enrolling my son in Social Security, and completing the necessary paperwork with the VA and DFAS (military pay system), I can’t help but wonder what he’s going to do when I’m gone – and will this all be enough. Obviously we can’t plan for every eventuality, so we do our best to address as much as possible.

When we’ve finished applying for his benefits, my next focus will be on where he will live. There are many organizations throughout the country offering Residential facilities, and with Group Homes no longer authorized it’s a safe bet these homes will not have more than (4) residents; but we’ve (my son and I) decided not to pursue this route – because he doesn’t want to have a roommate.

There are also organizations creating communities of individuals with a specific diagnosis, I believe the most common is Autism. Although I think this is an incredible opportunity for some families, for me personally it does not meet the full inclusion experience I want for my son.

So what does this leave? For us, we’re looking at purchasing a multi-family home (duplex). While I’m alive, and able, I will work with a property management company to rent out the other unit (I don’t like doing maintenance). When I’m gone, either I will have paid off the mortgage or the life insurance will settle the debt; either way ownership of the property will transfer to my son’s Special Needs Trust, and the Trustee will work with the property management company.

In my opinion, the advantage to this is the property will pay for itself after I’m gone. The Trustee will have the authority to increase rent, evict tenants, etc; and the property management company will ensure the property is well maintained. Living in the house prior to me passing will allow us to develop an understanding of what the household expenses are; which will allow me to flesh out a reasonable budget for the Trustee to follow.

If you have a child, or sibling, you’re caring for and you haven’t put any thought into where they will live after you’re gone please use this as a siren call to start planning. There is no one-size fits all solution, it really boils down to what the individual wants/is capable of and your financial situation. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will become – but it’s only too late if you pass away before you do something; because then it falls into the hands of the State. If you’re not sure what to do, reach out and ask.


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